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13 more days down before we can start voting. congra to all P10 idols who got in and yay. lucky felicia ish in too. tsk tsk.
started watching 'Er Mo Zai Sheng Bian' starring Xiao Mei, Rainie Yang, Wang Chuan Yi and Beiling. love d cast and character. all look really great. wh, im on d part where meng's bro appear le! woo. he sooo cute larhs. too bad Ke Mi go their own way le. boo!
having project presentation tml. havin stage fright. and something to happy bout ish. after tml, nid not attend sch till nov 23 for our last paper. double yayness. just nid to endure 2 more days of school. bump into shuhui in d bus. yeap. catch up quite a bit. she was zzz-ing when i board d bus, so i sit behind her and disturb by calling and sms-ing her. it was much ltr, she realize im jus behind her. haha. lookin forward to our next meet tgt with kor, xin and yi : )
YEAHH. watching DS tgt with d girls on thur =D jast already watch and na gg to catch it ltr. im sooo jealous okiie. haha. those who had watch d show, mention its nice. so i guess it's really nice. and action type of movive ish my favorite kind of movie ^^
something to share, taken from yr 2001 - teenage mag. pretty meaninful and interesting.
LOVE ur FRIEND and PARTNER for who THEY really IS (or is it ARE?)
Just becos u won't find someone perfect doesn't mean you can pick any girl/guy and make her/him into ur miss/mr perfect. You've got to like her/him as she she/he is right now, or d relationship will NEVER work out.
d perfect lover is nt achieved by forcing an unsuitable partner into drastic changes to meet ur needs. Don't jump into a relationship, just because she's/he's available and interested! Spend tym searching ard n thinkin of d kind of partner who will suit u best. u will find someone who matches ur expectations more closely. If u think it's easier to just grab someone and change her/him into what you want, you will only be disappoint with the truth. nt only is d process going to be tough, it will also end up two totally frustrated ppl: you & ur partner.
it really doesn't matter which aspect of your partner that you are dissatisfied with. u could be trying to stop her/him from smoking, from frequenting certain places that u disapprove of, or from dressing a way that disagree with u. as long as she/he thinks she/he doesn't nid to change or improve on herself/himself, you'll never succeed in moulding her/him into ur ideal woman/men. Remember, she/he has to want to change herself/himself in d first place. If not, d change would nt take place, even if she/he loves u.
u may wonder, what hurt can it cause from a little naggin on ur part? here's what: u spend day after day, mth after mth, and year after year of pushing her/him to change - only to realize that she/he still has that same irritating trait that she/he from day one. Or that she/he would do as u say when u are ard, but revert to her/him old self when she/he thinks u are nt looking. You get so disappointed in her/him: all tat time and saliva spend on explaining y d change was necessary and beneficial to her/him, and yet she/he ignore u like you are microscopic algae! for etc, u try to get her/him to quit smokin. but she/he tell u that her/his lungs are fine, that nicotine doesn't harm her/him, and by d way, she/he wants to break up with u becos she/he has found someone who likes her d way she is.
And she's/he's right (about d last thing). Everyone deserve to be loved for d way he or she is. be4 entering into any romanctic relationship, ask urself if u r happy with her/him. while it's true that we could all do with some improvement, it is essential that u like ur partner for who she/he ish right now. dun buy into d notion that u can get her/him to change herself/himself once u two fall in love. if she/he isn't what u r lookin for, set her/him free for some other lucky guy/girl, and u can continue with ur seach. but if u truly like her/him, then work at really appericating her/him instead of startin ur "educating" mission. The pure 100% perfect lover exists, BUT only in fairytales. And that's where it shld stay.
13 more days down before we can start voting. congra to all P10 idols who got in and yay. lucky felicia ish in too. tsk tsk.
started watching 'Er Mo Zai Sheng Bian' starring Xiao Mei, Rainie Yang, Wang Chuan Yi and Beiling. love d cast and character. all look really great. wh, im on d part where meng's bro appear le! woo. he sooo cute larhs. too bad Ke Mi go their own way le. boo!
having project presentation tml. havin stage fright. and something to happy bout ish. after tml, nid not attend sch till nov 23 for our last paper. double yayness. just nid to endure 2 more days of school. bump into shuhui in d bus. yeap. catch up quite a bit. she was zzz-ing when i board d bus, so i sit behind her and disturb by calling and sms-ing her. it was much ltr, she realize im jus behind her. haha. lookin forward to our next meet tgt with kor, xin and yi : )
YEAHH. watching DS tgt with d girls on thur =D jast already watch and na gg to catch it ltr. im sooo jealous okiie. haha. those who had watch d show, mention its nice. so i guess it's really nice. and action type of movive ish my favorite kind of movie ^^
something to share, taken from yr 2001 - teenage mag. pretty meaninful and interesting.
LOVE ur FRIEND and PARTNER for who THEY really IS (or is it ARE?)
Just becos u won't find someone perfect doesn't mean you can pick any girl/guy and make her/him into ur miss/mr perfect. You've got to like her/him as she she/he is right now, or d relationship will NEVER work out.
d perfect lover is nt achieved by forcing an unsuitable partner into drastic changes to meet ur needs. Don't jump into a relationship, just because she's/he's available and interested! Spend tym searching ard n thinkin of d kind of partner who will suit u best. u will find someone who matches ur expectations more closely. If u think it's easier to just grab someone and change her/him into what you want, you will only be disappoint with the truth. nt only is d process going to be tough, it will also end up two totally frustrated ppl: you & ur partner.
it really doesn't matter which aspect of your partner that you are dissatisfied with. u could be trying to stop her/him from smoking, from frequenting certain places that u disapprove of, or from dressing a way that disagree with u. as long as she/he thinks she/he doesn't nid to change or improve on herself/himself, you'll never succeed in moulding her/him into ur ideal woman/men. Remember, she/he has to want to change herself/himself in d first place. If not, d change would nt take place, even if she/he loves u.
u may wonder, what hurt can it cause from a little naggin on ur part? here's what: u spend day after day, mth after mth, and year after year of pushing her/him to change - only to realize that she/he still has that same irritating trait that she/he from day one. Or that she/he would do as u say when u are ard, but revert to her/him old self when she/he thinks u are nt looking. You get so disappointed in her/him: all tat time and saliva spend on explaining y d change was necessary and beneficial to her/him, and yet she/he ignore u like you are microscopic algae! for etc, u try to get her/him to quit smokin. but she/he tell u that her/his lungs are fine, that nicotine doesn't harm her/him, and by d way, she/he wants to break up with u becos she/he has found someone who likes her d way she is.
And she's/he's right (about d last thing). Everyone deserve to be loved for d way he or she is. be4 entering into any romanctic relationship, ask urself if u r happy with her/him. while it's true that we could all do with some improvement, it is essential that u like ur partner for who she/he ish right now. dun buy into d notion that u can get her/him to change herself/himself once u two fall in love. if she/he isn't what u r lookin for, set her/him free for some other lucky guy/girl, and u can continue with ur seach. but if u truly like her/him, then work at really appericating her/him instead of startin ur "educating" mission. The pure 100% perfect lover exists, BUT only in fairytales. And that's where it shld stay.
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